17 Best Fleshlights in 2023: Fleshlight Sleeves and Textures Reviewed

Last Updated on: October 5, 2023 | First published on: December 6, 2015

The simple fact is that buying a Fleshlight pocket pussy is not as straightforward as it seems. There are sleeves for all sizes, shapes and tastes: textured and non-textured; anal, oral and vaginal; realistic, fantasy and even alien.

The choice is mind-boggling, and very personal; it is simply not possible to recommend one Fleshlight to every man as every one of us is different.

This guide is here to help you make sense of it all, whether you are buying your first, second or tenth Fleshlight. You will find real Fleshlight reviews, personal recommendations and a selection of sleeves for all preferences. Let's choose the best Fleshlight sleeve for you!

⭐ Best Fleshlight ⭐

Fleshlight Kissa Sins Insatiable - sleeve

Kissa Sins Insatiable

This Fleshlight delivers mind-blowing orgasms every time. Intense but not overwhelming.

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Best Realistic Fleshlight

Fleshlight Mini-Lotus: Most Realistic Fleshlight Sleeve

Mini Lotus

Very realistic feeling sleeve and a very popular choice; ideal for a first time Fleshlight user.

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Best Anal Fleshlight

Fleshlight Mini-Lotus: Most Realistic Fleshlight Sleeve

Mia Malkova Boss Level

A fantastic all-round good Fleshlight with a firm grip and constant stimulation.

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How to Choose the Best Fleshlight for You

My best  Fleshlight recommendations are listed next but if you want to learn more about what makes Fleshlights so great, jump further down to the Fleshlight Q&A section.

The Best Fleshlight: Kissa Sins Insatiable

I've been often asked what is the best Fleshlight. If I had to choose only one Fleshlight (from so many great options), I would choose Kissa Sins Insatiable. It’s absolutely amazing. It just delivers great sensations every time I use it.

The Insatiable is well named; after trying it once I became greedy for more and I don’t know if I’ll ever get bored of it. Super intense without being over-stimulating, the varied textures of the Insatiable deliver mind-blowing orgasms every time.
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Fleshlight Kissa Sins Insatiable - sleeve

PROS

  • Guaranteed great orgasm.
  • Intense without being being too much to bear.

CONS

  • Cleaning takes patience.
  • You'll come fast.

The Best Realistic Fleshlight: Mini Lotus

The realistic feel of Fleshlight’s SuperSkin material makes their masturbation sleeves some of the best available.

Of course, there is no way to make a pocket pussy truly realistic, but the feel of the insert interior can come quite close sometimes.

The Mini Lotus  is a gentle sleeve with textures which mimic the feeling of a real vagina.

As the name suggests, the Mini Lotus an alternative version of the Lotus sleeve. Despite its similar appearance it is a different experience altogether. The Lotus node appears significantly closer to the entrance, making the later chambers much more accessible to smaller and average sized penises.


It is a very realistic feeling sleeve and a very popular choice; ideal for a first time Fleshlight user.

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Fleshlight Mini-Lotus: Most Realistic Fleshlight Sleeve

PROS

  • Tight entrance.
  • The lotus node (which always feels so good!).
  • Cheaper than Fleshlight Girls models.

CONS

  • Not much. This is such a good all-around sleeve.
  • Cleaning takes patience.

The Best Anal Fleshlight: Mia Malkova Boss Level

Similarly to the realistic pussy masturbators, Fleshlight's SuperSkin material suits also for butt Fleshlights. Tighter sleeves with the right internal texture can produce an outstanding anal sex imitation.

The Mia Malkova Boss Level's nice, tight entrance is followed by a satisfying collection of angled bumps. With a firm grip, constant stimulation, and just enough intensity to be satisfying, the Boss Level is a fantastic all-round good Fleshlight which will suit a wide range of guys.  
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Fleshlight Mia Malkova Boss Level - sleeve

PROS

  • The combination of different textures and tightness feels just right.
  • A fantastic all-around sleeve
  • Mia Malkova is hot!

CONS

  • The texture doesn't have much variety.

The Best Portable Fleshlight: Fleshlight Riley Reid Compact Utopia Quickshot

Fleshlights are big and they are not discreet. Not so big that they are difficult to handle, but big enough that they make a noticeable addition to luggage; they are not travel friendly.

Luckily, Fleshlight has developed several types of smaller Fleshlight toy. Not only do these fit better in the hand, they also pack neatly into an overnight bag or slip discreetly into a bedside drawer.

Fleshlight Quickshots are short, open-ended Fleshlights that look like a section of a full size sleeve. The Riley Reid Quickshot is a big improvement over the older models. The double orifice and texture is a great concept and adds much more variety to the relatively simple Quickshots.
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Fleshlight Quickshot Riley Reid

PROS

  • Smaller than the regular Fleshlights.
  • Cheaper than other Fleshlights.
  • Easier to clean that regular Fleshlights.

CONS

  • The Quickshots lack the full immersive experience of the artificial vaginas.
  • The smaller size of the surrounding case can make them a little too tight for thicker guys.

The Best Intense Fleshlight: Kissa Sins Insatiable

Intensity, when it comes to Fleshlight sleeves, usually means one of two things. It could refer to the stimulation of the penis or the power of the eventual orgasm.

The inserts that are generally regarded as the most intense generally include both: a very stimulating build up and a fast and powerful climax.

The best intense Fleshlight is the same model I chose as the overall best Fleshlight. I was totally blown away by the Insatiable! I often find that intense sleeves become almost unbearable on a sensitive penis and have to stop moving or pull out before orgasm but the Insatiable gets the intensity just right.
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Fleshlight Kissa Sins Insatiable - sleeve

PROS

  • Guaranteed great orgasm.
  • Intense without being too much to bear.

CONS

  • Cleaning takes patience.
  • You'll come fast.

The Best Tight Fleshlight: Jessica Drake Heavenly

The inner dimensions of different Fleshlight sleeves vary, sometimes significantly, which means that some feel a lot tighter than others. The detail of the texture can also have an effect on the feel of the sleeve.

Don’t make the mistake of deciding that tighter is better - like the high intensity sleeves, the very tight designs will not be suitable for everyone.

But guys with smaller or thinner than average penises might find some of the wider sleeves do not stimulate them enough and that the tighter models suit them best.

Overall, the Jessica Drake Heavenly is one of the more exciting Fleshlight experiences. The range of textures and sensation as you progress through the sleeve stimulate in so many different ways that it is like nothing else you’ve ever tried. If you want a tight Fleshlight the Heavenly is one of the best options.
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Fleshlight Jessica Drake Heavenly

PROS

  • It's tight.
  • Great range of textures and sensations.

CONS

  • Can be too tight if you're a bigger guy.
  • Cleaning takes patience.

The Best Fleshlight for Larger Guys: Asa Akira Dragon

The SuperSkin sleeve material is very flexible and there is a lot of room in the standard Fleshlight cases; they are designed to suit most guys.

However, if your penis is larger than average you will want to avoid the tightest sleeves and bigger guys might even find that some average sized sleeves feel a little snug.

The Asa Akira Dragon's gentle cross ribs combine with small bumps, which spiral around the extra wide channel of the sleeve. It has the distinctive ‘milking’ action that builds up to orgasm is soft and almost agonizingly slow. An indulgent and interesting sleeve – best suited for larger guys or those who enjoy a (very) slow build up.
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Fleshlight Asa Akira Dragon

PROS

  • Great for long, slow masturbation sessions.
  • Easy to clean.

CONS

  • Can be too wide for smaller or thinner penises.
  • Has only one texture.

The Best Budget Fleshlight: Go Surge

Fleshlights are amazing male sex toys and I would say that they are worth every penny. But the cost is not insignificant and can soon add up, especially if you plan to try more than one sleeve.

Luckily, there are a few low cost sleeves that deliver just as much variety and pleasure as the full sized models.

A smaller and cheaper Fleshlight model, the Go Surge has an intense texture of small ribs and perfectly placed bumps. While it’s smaller than the standard sleeves the Go Surge is still plenty large enough to accommodate all but the largest penis. The Go Surge is one of the top Fleshlights on the market. It can be picked up for under $60.
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Fleshlight GO Surge Review: Smaller and cheaper Fleshlight

PROS

  • Strong, fast orgasms.
  • Cheaper than the full-sized Fleshlights.

CONS

  • Intense, so not suitable for long masturbation sessions.
  • Can be a bit tight if you're very large.

The Best Pornstar Fleshlight: Romi Rain Storm

There have been more than sixty exclusive Fleshlight Girls sleeves, each made with a molded replica of the orifice of the girl it is named for.

For those who want to fulfill a fantasy of sex with a specific girl, the choice is easy, but my favorite texture is Romi Rain Storm.

The Storm is a fantastic pussy sleeve for guys who enjoy strong Fleshlight textures. Five distinct sections offer a variety of stimulating surfaces, including small bumps, dense ridges and tight constrictions to send you quickly into a mind-blowing orgasm. This sleeve is very overpowering so proceed with caution unless you love intensity.
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Fleshlight Romi Rain Storm Sleeve

PROS

  • Great, powerful orgasms.
  • It's Romi Rain Fleshlight.

CONS

  • The texture can be a bit too strong.
  • Cleaning takes patience.

The Best MILF Fleshlight: Brandi Love Heartthrob

Some of the most experienced and accomplished porn stars in the industry have worked on the Fleshlight Girls series and, over time, several of these have become very successful MILFs.

These ladies could teach most of us a thing or two about great sex and their signature sleeves make indulging in a MILF fantasy easier than ever.

My favorite MILF Fleshlight is the vaginal sleeve of hot MILF Brandi Love that defies all expectations with its stimulating channel and subtly ribbed texture. The small ridges add a slight feeling of vibration and just enough stimulation to spice up a surprisingly realistic feeling sleeve.

This sleeve is an ideal all-rounder for the guy who just wants one good Fleshlight (rather than a collection of dozens).
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Fleshlight Brandi Love Hearttrob - sleeve

PROS

  • Subtle and realistic. Great for long masturbation sessions and edging.
  • Easy to clean.

CONS

  • None, really. Unless, you prefer some other MILF star than Brandi Love.

The See-Through Fleshlight: Turbo Ignition Blue Ice

Sometimes, a little visual stimulation can add a lot to your masturbation session. The Fleshlight Ice models are all made with transparent sleeves and cases, so that you can see every movement as you thrust into them.

I like these for use with a partner; being able to see the action inside the Fleshlight means that we can both enjoy the experience that little bit more.

There are Ice models available in the Standard, Flight, Quickshot and Turbo ranges.

My favorite clear Fleshlight is Turbo Ignition Blue Ice. This is the same one I already chose as the best blowjob Fleshlight but in bluish, clear material. The entrance is the highlight of the Turbo Ignition, but the subtle texture provides just enough stimulation to reach a mind blowing orgasm.
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Fleshlight Turbo Ignition Blue Ice

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  • It's a see-through!
  • The best simulated blowjob.  The entry feels so good!

CONS

  • Slightly sticky material.
  • Cleaning takes patience.

The Best Fleshlight for Building Stamina: Romi Rain Storm

Fleshlights are fun. But they can also serve a practical purpose; many guys use them to help increase sexual stamina. There is even a sleeve called Fleshlight Stamina Training Unit.

The idea of stamina training is to build up your endurance over time; stopping and starting, or ‘edging’, to delay orgasm.

 For this reason, the best choices for this are extremely intense and stimulating sleeves; if you can last more than a few minutes in some of them then you are doing well!

Romi Rain Storm Fleshlight is my favorite intense Fleshlight and as such great for stamina workouts! See above for more details about the sleeve.

Fleshlight Romi Rain Storm Sleeve

The Best Freaks and Fantasy Fleshlight: Freaks Bigfoot

Fleshlight used to have some great fantasy Fleshlights, like Freaks Bigfoot and Frankenstein, but those sleeves appear to be discontinued.

That's a shame as, especially, the Bigfoot was a fantastic sleeve and vampire, cyborg, and zombies designs added variety to Fleshlight's range of products.

If you prefer your fantasy Fleshlight to be rooted in the real world, it is also worth taking a look at the best Fleshlight Girls sleeves to see if your favorite porn star is among them.

You can also wait for the next Halloween as Fleshlight often brings back some the Freaks models for a limited time
Fleshlight Freaks Bigfoot sleeve

The Best Interactive Fleshlight

The robotic, motorized Fleshlight Launch gives you a hands-free experience and can take your solo-masturbation to a totally new level. These masturbator-aids move and response to porn videos, adding an exciting extra dimension to your masturbation experience.

There are two different Launch bases that fit the regular Fleshlights and Quickshots respectively. Therefore, you can use the interactive Launch with your favorite Fleshlight.
Fleshlight Launch on its side

Fleshlight Buyer's Guide

When I was buying my first Fleshlight male masturbator it was overwhelming. There were so many different designs, and so many conflicting opinions about them, that I felt lost.

It took me a long time to finally choose - wasted time when I could have been enjoying my new adult sex toy!

The simple fact is that buying a Fleshlight pocket pussy is not as straightforward as it seems. There are sleeves for all sizes, shapes and tastes: textured and non-textured; anal, oral and vaginal; realistic, fantasy and even alien.

The choice is mind-boggling, and very personal; it is simply not possible to recommend one Fleshlight to every man as every one of us is different.

I hope this guide has helped you make sense of it all, whether you are buying your first, second or tenth Fleshlight. All Fleshlight reviews on Merry Frolics are real, personal recommendations and I do my best to provide advice for all preferences.

How to Choose Your Fleshlight

With such a variety of models to choose from it is difficult to decide where to begin. Luckily, nearly all Fleshlights have something to offer and most are enjoyable to use.

You will need to start by thinking about a few basic things. Is your penis large, small or average? Do you enjoy fast intense masturbation or long, slow sessions? Do you enjoy the visual stimulation of a well-designed Fleshlight or does the appearance not matter to you? Do you have a fantasy to fulfill? Do you prefer a mouth, butt or pussy orifice?

Everyone has their own personal preferences and there really is no one size fits all answer to Fleshlight selection. The best way to choose is to check out the recommendations below, read a few Fleshlight sleeve reviews and then just take the plunge.

I have over 80 Fleshlights and a bunch of Fleshlight alternatives from other brands and most of them are great and super-fun to use.

Some of the popular Fleshlight that often come up in discussions and reviews are Stoya Destroya, Fleshlight Flight Pilot, Fleshlight Turbo Thrust, Quickshot Vantage, Riley Reid Fleshlight, and many more, are all very good Fleshlights. I've tried them and often use them regularly. You can find the reviews in the All Fleshlights page.

The only two Fleshlights that I would not recommend are the Original (aka Pink Lady) and Super Tight sleeves. Many first time users select these as they appear to be a good general starting point. However, both sleeves leave a lot to be desired when compared to the more textured sleeve varieties. They are not realistic and, once you are familiar with the lifelike SuperSkin material, they are fairly boring to use.

When you're ready to buy your first Fleshlight, check out the How to Buy a Fleshlight guide for answers to common questions about buying, shipping, and billing.

Fleshlight Q&A

Is a Fleshlight worth it?

Yes it is. The realistic feel of Fleshlight’s SuperSkin material makes their masturbators feel truly magnificent. And the range of sleeves, textures, and porn star models make Fleshlight unbeatable in the field of sex toys for men.

What is a Fleshlight?

A Fleshlight sex toy is a masturbation sleeve. That is, a hollow tube shaped device, lined with soft skin-like material, made to feel as much like a vagina (or ass, or mouth) as possible. Fleshlights are not the only male masturbator on the market but they are definitely the best known.

What is the best first Fleshlight?

My recommendation as the first Fleshlight is Mini Lotus. It's realistic, not too intense, has a good amount of variety, and feels AMAZING! It's also a bit cheaper than the Fleshlight Girl models.

What are the different Fleshlight types?

Wow! There are many. There are:

- The "regular" Fleshlights: Large, vaguely flashlight shaped male masturbators.

- The Fleshlight Girls models: Similar to the regular Fleshlights but their orifices are molded from real porn stars and they have bespoke textures.

- Fleshlight Quickshot: Smaller, cheaper models that have a different design from the "normal" Fleshlights. They are great, but do not give the full Fleshlight experience.

- Turbo Fleshlights: These are similar to the regular Fleshlights but designed to provide a perfect blowjow experience in a male masturbator.

- Fleshlight Go and Flight: These are slightly smaller Fleshlights that still have the full Fleshlight experience.

- Stamina Training Unit Fleshlight: There is a specific Fleshlight model than can help you to last longer in bed. To be honest, most Fleshlight models can help you with that.

- Other Fleshlight models: Fleshlight has created many other kinds of male masturbation toys over the years. There is a Fleshlight Vibro with vibrating motors inside, Fleshsack with balls hanging below the anal orifice, Fleshskins that doesn't have a case, and there also used to be a wonderful Fleshlight Freaks selection with sleeves like Alien, Cyborg, or Zombie (these are still often available during Halloween).

- Fleshjack: The Fleshjack Fleshlights are a separate product line for gay men.

How does a Fleshlight feel?

Fleshlight inner sleeves are made with a soft, yielding material known as SuperSkin. When warmed and lubed for use it feels surprisingly real, probably as close to the real thing as you can get with a masturbation device.

Where to Buy a Fleshlight

The Fleshlight's own online store is the best place to buy a Fleshlight. The selection cannot be beat, and you can be sure that you are getting the real thing.

Fleshlights are also available on Amazon. You can sometimes find good deals from there but be aware fake sex toys are not uncommon on the Amazon store.

Other (online) sex stores: While most sex stores won’t carry the full range of available Fleshlights there are some advantages to shopping elsewhere. If you want to add other products to your order then a general sex-store might be the best place to shop.

Can you make your own Homemade Fleshlight?

Yes, you can make your own Fleshlight. It's not going to be as good as the real thing, but the orgasms can be pretty good. You can find the detailed instructions how to make seven different DIY pocket pussies here.

How to use a Fleshlight?

Using a Fleshlight is simple. You find the orifice, apply lube, and insert your penis. In this article we explore a few tips and tricks which can make Fleshlight masturbation even more enjoyable.

Which Fleshlight is easiest to clean?

Fleshlight Quickshots are by far the easiest to clean as you can turn them inside out. See the Fleshlight cleaning article to learn more about how to clean a Fleshlight.

Do I need lube for my Fleshlight?

Yes you do. A water-based lube will make your Fleshlight masturbation much better.

How do you choose a Fleshlight for a smaller penis?

The inner dimensions of different Fleshlight sleeves vary, sometimes significantly, which means that some feel a lot tighter than others. The detail of the texture can also have an effect on the feel of the sleeve.

For specific recommendations, see the best tight Fleshlights section above.

Are Fleshlight accessories worth it?

I already mentioned Fleshlight Launch product line and, if you can afford them, they are great,

A warm Fleshlight feels a lot better than a cold one. To that end, there is Fleshlight Sleeve Warmer. It's great, but you can achieve the same with a sink full of warm water.

There are several Fleshlight mounts which can be quite cool. Especially the Shower Mount can be really fun. The masturbation pillows are cool, but you can achieve 90% of the function with just organizing some pillows.

Drying a Fleshlight before putting it away is my least favorite part of Fleshlight. Luckily the Fleshlight Air is perfect accessory for that.


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