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Sexy Gift Ideas: Best Sex Toys for Men

Sex toys, sex toys... Do you want to surprise your husband or boyfriend? Has your partner bought you sex toys before and now you want to give him something naughty-but-nice too?

Buying sex toys is simple and discreet but how do you know which one to buy? In any sex store, there are countless masturbators, vibrators, prostate massagers, butt plugs, sex dolls, lubes, condoms, sex furniture, and other even more baffling sex toys for guys. Deciding between them isn't easy. Therefore, I've listed a few recommended and safe male sex toys for each toy category below.

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Another thing to remember when buying any sex toy is the safety of the toys. All sex toys mentioned in this article are made by reputable sex toy manufacturers that do not make toxic sex toys.

Male Masturbators

Male masturbators, or fake vaginas, must be men's favorite sex toys. They can provide a range of sensations similar to sexual intercourse.

Fleshlight and Tenga are the two biggest brands for male masturbators. Both have a wide range of masturbation sleeves with different sensations and sizes.

Fleshlight also has a selection of masturbators based on various porn stars. If your hubby has a crush on a specific starlet, you probably don't need to look any further.


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If you desire something more fantastical, then fantasy-themed sex toys by Bad Dragon might fit the bill. Bad Dragon makes sex toys based on mythological and fantasy beasts. Sex with a dragon, anyone?

Male Masturbators in Doubles Play

Masturbation sleeves aren't only for solo sex. You can be in control of the masturbation sleeve and masturbate your man with it. Many find transparent masturbators arousing as you can see the penis inside, magnified in size.

Great Options for Male Masturbators
Stoya Fleshlight masturbator - best sex toys for men

Fleshlight Stoya

Custom molded to Stoya's intimate parts.

Tenga Flip Hole Black Male Masturbator

Tenga Flip Hole Black

Easy to dry and
clean.

Fleshlight Quickshot Compact Male Masturbator

Fleshlight Quickshot

Good for mutual masturbation.

If you're on a budget, then a Tenga Egg can be a good option. They look funny, like an egg, and cost only around $10. On the downside, they are intended only for a single use, but if you clean and dry them carefully, it's possible to get more uses out of an Egg.

Male Vibrators

Many things are called male vibrators; cock rings, prostate massagers, and frenulum (the underside of the head of the penis) stimulators. What's common between them, is that they vibrate and are used to produce sexual pleasure for men.

Vibrating cock rings shouldn't be confused with regular, tight cock rings, that are used to prolong the erection. Instead, vibrating rings fit snuggly at the base of the penis, and have a vibrator that stimulates both the wearer and his partner.

Frenulum stimulators envelop the penis and its head, and produce oscillating vibrations on the head and frenulum, providing intense pleasure. Unlike traditional masturbators that simulate sex, the oscillating vibrators provide a unique sensation.

For the vibrating prostate massagers, see the following chapter.

Male Vibrators in Doubles Play

Vibrating cock rings provide pleasure for both partners. They may be sex toys for men but vibrating cock rings produce the most intense pleasure for the woman.

Hot Octopus Pulse II male vibrator also has a DUO model for couples. The DUO has an additional vibrating motor that adds stimulation for a woman straddling a man.

Great Options for Male Vibrators
Tenga SVR Smart Vibe Ring - Vibrating Cock Ring

Tenga SVR Smart Vibe Ring

Intense pleasure for both partners.

Hot Octopus Pulse II - Male Vibrator

Hot Octopus Pulse II Male Vibrator

SOLO & DUO models.

Fun Factory Cobra Libre II - Male Vibrator

Fun Factory Cobra Libre II Male Vibrator

Rechargeable & waterproof.

On a budget, Tracey Cox Supersex Silicone Love Ring can be a good option. You need to change the battery quite often and the vibrations aren't very powerful, but for around ten bucks, it an affordable way to try vibrating cock rings.

Prostate Massagers

Guys have a prostate. Massaging or milking it can bring on an intense orgasm that feels very different from the regular one achieved through penis stimulation.

The prostate gland is located next to men's bladder and can be massaged through the anus. The massaging can be done with a finger or various sex toys.

Men of all sexual orientations can enjoy a prostate massage. Prostate massage is also used as a medical treatment for enlarged prostate.

Prostate massagers come in various shapes and sizes. Vibrating prostate massagers are also popular. When buying anal toys, always make sure they have a flared end that prevents them from being sucked in.

Prostate Massagers in Doubles Play

Prostate milking can be done solo or with a partner. Having your partner massage your prostate is a deeply intimate experience.

Great Options for Prostate Massagers
Aneros Helix Syn - Prostate Massager

Aneros Helix Syn

Top selling non-vibrating prostate massager.

Lelo Billy - Vibrating Prostate Massager

Lelo Billy

Vibrating luxurious prostate massager.

Lelo Hugo - Remote-controlled Vibrating Prostate Massager

Lelo Hugo

Remote-controlled vibrating prostate massager.

On a budget, Flexcite 10 Function Silicone Vibrating Prostate Massager is a cheaper vibrating prostate massager. This model is a little thicker which may be a little scary, though.

Long Distance Sex Toys

​Long distance sex toys are also called teledildonic sex toys. Have you ever been traveling away from your partner and desired some sex? Teledildonics is what the doctor ordered for physical longing.

Teledildonic sex toys are the best modern gadgets can offer to overcome physical distance in sex. A teledildonic sex toy set has a dildo and male masturbator. When the dildo is used or caressed, it sends tactile information over to the masturbator that squeezes and pulls the penis inside in response.

Teledildonic toys can also be used for solo sex sessions. Porn video sites have films where the action can be not only seen but felt through the sex toy.

If you're curious to learn more, check my article about virtual reality sex.

Great Options for Long Distance Sex Toys
Lovense Nora and Max - teledildonic sex toys

Lovense Max and Nora

Connect with you smartphone.

Kiiroo Pearl and Onyx - teledildonic sex toys

Kiiroo Onyx and Pearl

Created in collaboration with Fleshlight.

VStroker Virtual Sex Adapter for Fleshlight

VStroker Virtual Sex Adapter for Fleshlight

For solo sex only.

Teledildonic toys have a lot of internal technology. Therefore, they are quite expensive. On a budget, you may consider VStroker virtual sex adapter for Fleshlight (see the image & link above). It is not a couples toy and requires a Fleshlight masturbator but it is much cheaper than fully tactile, remotely controlled teledildonic sex toys.

Condoms and Lubes

A sexy gift doesn't need to be a new sex toy. It can be something simpler that has the potential to enhance your sex life.

Lubes

Personal lubricants can add something new to sex. It can be just a little bit of added slickness, new hot or cold sensations, or something to more confidently enter the anal playing field.

See my introduction to lubes article for more ideas, and details about lube compatibility with sex toys and your body.

Great Options for Lubricants
Yes - organic water based personal lubricant

Yes Organic Water-Based Lube

With Aloe Vera.

Fleshlight Fleshlube Fire - water based warming lubricant

Fleshlube Fire Warming
Lube

Tingling, warming effect.

ONE Mixed Pleasure Condoms

Sliquid Sassy Anal Lube

Thick and long
lasting lube.

Condoms

Condoms can add extra sensation for both partners. An extra thin condom allows men to feel the full sensation without the dulling effect, whereas ribbed condoms add to the woman's sensations.

Would a great tasting, glowing condom make a blowjob a gift to remember?

Great Options for Condoms
EXS Air Thin Condoms

EXS Air Thin Condoms

Maximum pleasure
for him.

Durex Tickle Me Ribbed Condoms

Durex Tickle Me Ribbed Condoms

Extra sensations for her.

ONE Mixed Pleasure Condoms

ONE Mixed Pleasures Condoms

A variety pack.

Sex Toys Keep Giving

Sex toy gifts will not only make your partner happy, they can lead to a long-lasting desire and pleasure for both of you.

Once a week I comb through two dozen sex toy companies and sex shops to find the best deals on male sex toys.



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