Fleshlight Review: Stoya Destroya – Intense Fleshlight

The Stoya Destroya is a sleeve from the Fleshlight Girls series, created exclusively to combine with the pussy orifice of porn star Stoya. It is a popular choice for Fleshlight fans, and is said to be one of the most intense Fleshlight sleeves on the market.

The Destroya texture is also available as a sleeve-only Fleshlight with a generic pussy orifice.

Stoya Destroya
If you’re looking for a very intense sleeve with a crazy, non-realistic texture, the Destroya is one of the best choices

Introducing Stoya


Bad girl Stoya has been involved in the sex industry for over ten years and is best known for her work in alt-porn, which showcases fringe subcultures and alternative styles. She has been nominated for seventeen industry awards, won six, and racked up over sixty acting credits for adult movies and scenes.

Stoya has a lot more going for her than her scorching hot looks and erotic acting skills. She has written for The New York Times, Vice, New Statesman and Esquire. In 2015 she began to work for The Verge as a sex columnist.

Today, Stoya runs her own porn website, Trenchcoatx.com, with fellow actress Kayden Kross - Kayden Krooss Bookworm was my first Fleshlight, read the in-depth review for a lot of basic Fleshlight information - and continues to act in a variety of movies including Enderlezi Rising, due for release in 2017, in which she plays an android, programmed to fulfil mans’ every desire.

This amazing lady has brains, beauty and talent in abundance. What could be sexier?

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Stoya Destroya Fleshlight Review

Sleeve and Texture

Fleshlight Stoya Destroya

Like Stoya herself, the Destroya Fleshlight is complex, intense and full of surprises. As it is part of the Fleshlight Girls series, the sleeve comes with a pussy orifice taken from an exact molding of Stoya’s labia, with her signature displayed next to it. I don’t usually care much how the pussy lips look like but these are great. Check yourself!

Inside, it starts with a fairly narrow channel (0.4” or 10mm) which is lined with small bumps. This section is followed by a wider chamber, filled with longer bumps which extend into the center from all sides. The sleeve then narrows once again, forming a tight constriction to push through into the main chamber.

The next 2” section is filled with ‘fangs’ that are set at a 45 degree angle pointing towards the entrance of the sleeve, ready to grip and pull at your penis as you slide through them. Another ring of bumps leads into the final section, where a series of small ridges create a ribbed effect in a gently narrowing tunnel.


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Kissa Sins Insatiable
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Stoya Destroya
  • Complex, intense and full of surprises.

How does the Stoya Destroya feel?

The Destroya sleeve is praised as one of the most intense Fleshlight experiences available but opinions are mixed so I was keen to try it out.

I thought the entrance was nice and tight and the first section of bumps was almost subtle. There is a lot going on in this sleeve, as the sensations are constantly changing as you move through it. The fangs felt amazing and very stimulating.

Not every man will reach the final ribbed section but there is so much else in this sleeve that it is not a great loss. There are plenty of different sensations to choose from and you can try sliding in and out at different points along the length to really feel them.


Fleshlight Stoya Destroya Texture

For me, the Stoya becomes a little too intense at the moment of orgasm. The little ‘fangs’ are just too much and any movement doesn't feel good. I think it’s the tightness and intense texture in combination that overwhelm me.

The sleeve is on the tighter side; the entrance is tight and the narrow section between the fanged chamber is very tight.

I wouldn’t recommend the Stoya Destroya for someone with a sensitive glans. The texture can feel too rough. Also, I wouldn’t buy this as the first Fleshlight but would choose something more mainstream (like Mini Lotus). That said, the Destroya is something special and belongs to your Fleshlight collection.

Finally, I had to use really a lot of lube with the Destroya. Without extensive lubing it felt a little too rough and overwhelming.


Not surprisingly, the Destroya needs a thorough cleaning. The tall domes need careful attention to make sure that no residue gets left behind and you will need to run an ocean of water through the sleeve to get it clean. Drying does also take longer than usual.







How I rate Fleshlights explained

The Destroya is a feast of sensations and it’s easy to see why so many Fleshlight users love it. I find it a little too intense at the moment of orgasm but until that it feels amazing!

If you’re looking for a very intense sleeve with a crazy, non-realistic texture, the Destroya is one of the best choices.

Love the Stoya Destroya? Why not try these:

  • Stamina Training Unit (aka STU): If you are looking for intensity in your Fleshlight then look no further. The STU (as the name suggests) is designed to provide a super intense experience that helps the user learn to last longer.
  • Fleshlight Flight Pilot is known as “Mini-Destroya” as its texture shares many features with the Destroya. It’s also a very intense sleeve and is even tighter than the Destroya.
  • The intense blowjob Fleshlight, Turbo Thrust, is also worth of checking out.
  • For other great intense Fleshlights, see the reviews for: Kissa Sins Insatiable, Romi Rain Storm, and Kendra Sunderland Angel.

Autumn Falls Cream Fleshlight's intense textures create a strong pressure-release sensation which delivers one of the best Fleshlight orgasms ever. Read my Autumn Falls Cream review.

Looking for other best intense Fleshlight textures? Check out my Complete Guide to Finding the Best Fleshlight.

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Great Intense Fleshlights

Kissa Sins Insatiable – New Queen of Fleshlights: The Insatiable is her signature pussy Fleshlight. The sleeve is super intense without being over-stimulating, the varied textures of the Insatiable deliver mind-blowing orgasms every time. Read Kissa Sins Insatiable Fleshlight review.

Stoya Destroya - The Classic Intense Fleshlight: The Destroya is one of the most intense Fleshlights. It isn’t for the faint of heart but if you like intense sensations, read my review. Read Stoya Destroya Fleshlight review.

Turbo Thrust - Intense Blowjob Fleshlight: The distinctive three-part entrance of the Thrust provides the most realistic imitation of oral sex I have even experienced and its tight, stimulating inner texture is better than the best deep-throat. Read Turbo Thrust review.

Stamina Training Unit - STU: The STU is specifically designed to improve stamina. The texture is densely spaced rounded bumps in a relatively tight sleeve and it is very, very stimulating. Read Stamina Training Unit review.

Elsa Jean Tasty – Intense, Tight Fleshlight: The Tasty has a really unique combination of textures which add up to something pretty special and deliver some seriously powerful sensations. Read Elsa Jean Tasty review.

Go Surge - Great and Compact Fleshlight: A smaller and cheaper Fleshlight model, the Go Surge has an intense texture of small ribs and perfectly placed bumps. Read Go Surge review.